How Soon Is Too Soon to Sleep with Someone? – Dating Advice for Women

With all the advice out there telling women when it's the appropriate time to give it up, I want to get to the truth of truths about this subject because I think it can be dangerous to assume all women are the same But since I have a lot to say about this, let's get started

Welcome back to TLC Thursday My name is Christal Fuentes founder of TheLadiesCoachcom If you are new here welcome, and make sure you subscribe to this channel so you don't miss a thing So just how soon is too soon to sleep with someone? I'm so excited to shine some light on this topic, because it irks me to no end to hear some of the advice given to women about why it's important to wait until they have sex

This idea that men won't respect you, or that giving it up shows a lack of respect you have for yourself is complete Bull@&!t Yeah I said it The truth is to wait or have sex is completely dependent on what feels right for you What makes you feel most empowered, so what this really comes down to is self-awareness Recently someone asked me what the most important key to a lasting relationship was and assuming I'd say the typical communication, respect, blah blah blah, I said knowing yourself Why? Because if you don't know yourself you are going to be in seeking mode

Pleasing the wrong people and not doing what feels right for you Self-awareness is the best gift you could give yourself ladies Truthfully, self-awareness is knowing yourself and having the confidence to back it up Now let's take this back to why this matters when we're making the decision to sleep with someone or not When you are self-aware, you will never think about how another person will see you

You will make an empowered decision because you know it's best for you Here's where we get ourselves into trouble Making any decision out of fear I've seen it both ways Ladies having sex right away because they think it will keep the attention of a man, and ladies waiting because they think it will be deserving of respect from a man

Both are done out of fear and not congruent to your truth As corny as it sounds, remember the quote "Self-respect gets mad respect" No matter what you choose to do, as long as you make the decision feeling good about who you are, you are showing self-respect and that translates to the right people With that said I want to give you a few questions you can ask yourself before making a decision to have an adult meeting Number One: Do I want to do this? Number Two: Is it someone I want to do it with? and Number Three: Am I going to feel good about myself afterwards, no matter the outcome

If the answer is yes to all of the above, it doesn't matter if you have sex with someone right away, or six months from now Like I said as long as you have the self-awareness enough to make an empowered decision, you are making the best decision I've seen beautiful relationships that have started from sex on the first night, and I've seen beautiful relationships that made the choice to wait The right partner is going to respect you, because you are worthy of respect already, not because you chose to wait or not Now I want to ask you what was the most empowered sexual decision you've ever made? Comment below! As always if you liked this video, hit the subscribe button, so you don't miss a thing! And for more resources to make your life a little easier, head to TheLadiesCoach

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